
I found a sub-chapter in the
introduction which a little bit interesting to explain. Men often complain, She
is over-reacting and women complain, He doesn’t listen!. Right, it is
absolutely that man and woman have different habit in facing problem. You as
woman doesn’t need to feel that if your partner suddenly be quite so he is
distant or doesn’t interested on you anymore. When men are being quite that it
is something they don’t usually do, they are actually thinking about the
solving of their problem or recover their self for being under pressures. Let
the men get into their “cave” so they will be getting out from it naturally
when their problems become more easier or solved.
And you guys as men, we absolutely often
face partner who keep talk to talk about problem that they are facing. We don’t
need to bother about that, in this case let them pour their feeling out, you don’t
ever interrupt their words or try to give them solution of their problems. You
just need listen to them and after they’re finish with their words, come up with your
story too about how your day were until both of you didn’t relize that you are
laughing together.
By implicate those habit to your
partner, your relationship will be easier and romantic. Some of would laugh as
well after read several pages because you are recognizing your mistake of
mistreating your partner. And finally you are realize how much this John Gray’s
book was helping you.
Actually i am not really sure about this book because my types weren't included in what this book mention about. I didn't come from both planet.
And where did you come from? Pluto?
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